Is this worth crying over?

Me and my wife are having some issues right now. She feels that I'm trying to control her because I want her to stay home more instead of going out all the time. We're in our early 40's and only married about 11 months but she feels that after working a full week processing checks for a company she deserves to go out on the weekends. And these outings usually don't include me. I don't know anyone who needs that much "me" time. Once a month maybe. Every couple of months, ok. But weekly? If she wanted that much me time then she shouldn't have gotten married. Anyway, every morning she likes to wake up and watch the news just to see what bad or negative happened overnight. I like to listen to morning radio and start my day off with a laugh. Every morning I have to sit on my side of the bed with my headphones plugged into the clock radio while she gets the run of the room listening to the news. We use to have it where we would alternate. One day she got to listen to the news and I'd do the headphones. Then the other day she had to read to closed captions on the TV and I get to listen to the radio without the headphones. This morning when she came back into the room after getting out of the shower she looks at me and wonders if I'm gonna go ahead and plug in my headphones so she could watch the news? I told her she got to listen to the news friday so today I want to listen to the radio without headphones. She got all upset and started crying. Was this worth tears or is she the one who is trying to be controlling? I mean I don't have a problem taking turns with her but I don't want to always be the one who has to sit on the side of the bed in order to listen to the radio when she feels like she can run the room simply be shedding a few tears. Again, is it worth crying over?